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How to Destroy Your Man In Just Five Years!
By Cindy Rushton
Ok! Got your attention? Wondering if I have gone off the deep end?
No...this one is JUST FOR FUN! No ideas shared in this article are
intended to be used in any way! We guarantee results—so beware of
implementing them unless you want to fail in marriage and totally ruin
that man of your dreams!
Make it your ambition to NOT notice him!
Disregard what he says- Look the other way, bring something else up to
talk about, DO NOT listen!
Reject Him…his ideas, his love, his protection, his wisdom, his
opinions, his leadership!
Tell him ALL of his inadequacies AND how YOU can correct them!
Feed any of his insecurities WITH TRUTH about his weaknesses!
Each night when he comes home, go about your own business-it helps to be
on the phone and keep right on talking! Don’t even get dressed, wear
makeup, or brush your teeth!
Belittle him in private and especially in public! Let him “have it” when
you think different than him!
Compare him to other men AND your daddy!
Get on the phone and tell ALL about him! Don’t forget to complain and
Dishonor him in public and private! Let the whole world know what a wimp
Disobey him—what do guys know anyway?
Don’t put much value in him or in what he has to say—you know best!
Correct him in front of others—especially the children!
Find all his faults and tell him about them constantly!
Push him to get your way!
Never let him know he satisfies you (physically, spiritually,
emotionally, mentally…)—don’t ruin a good thing!
Lead him on!
Frustrate him ANY way you can!
Nag! How ELSE do you get a man to do anything? How ELSE will they ever
Complain! Make him suffer too!
Whine! Isn’t he SUPPOSED to encourage you?
Don’t waste your time understanding him!
Respond to him! ESPECIALLY to his offensive behavior!
Despise him for being such a weakling!
Don’t want this? Well, look on the NEXT article!! We want to help you as
you seek to help your husband become ALL he can be!!!
How To Help Your Husband to Be All He Can Be!!
By Cindy Rushton
NOW we are talking! OH! Beloved! If there is ONE person that has made
ALL of the mistakes on the last page and can only thank God for His
grace, it is ME! I praise God every day for the blessing that I have as
the wife of my very best friend. It can only be described as AMAZING
GRACE! I am so thankful that Harold KNOWS me inside-out and still
chooses to love me. Just TOO awesome! Makes ME want to help him to
become ALL he can become. Well, that is exactly what these tips are all
about—helping our husbands become all they can become. Check it out and
see if you find some ideas along the way!
Become VERY BEST friends! Enjoy his companionship. Endeavor to become a
Find things that you can enjoy TOGETHER. Breakfast each day...walks at
sunset...hobbies...work...etc. Constantly tie strings!
Look for his strengths…share them over and over! He can never hear them
Show gratefulness! Let him KNOW that you really appreciate what he does
for you and your family.
Get rid of any seeds of disrespect, jealousy, and comparison! You are in
this thing together!
Help him! God created woman to be a “help meet” for man—meaning that she
is the one who “completes” him and is “fit” for him. Find ways that you
meet your husband’s needs. Find ways that you help him to fulfill his
life purpose from God.
Pray for him! Circle him in prayer. Pray and fast when things are tough.
Celebrate and praise when God breaks through. Seek God with him.
Constantly build hedges of protection around him through prayer.
Support him! Become his personal cheerleader! Believe in what is on his
heart. Cheer him along when things are tough and not looking too good!
Cheer him on when he makes the mark!
Respect him! Respect comes through in little things: our tone of voice,
our facial expressions, our words, our behavior. Respect your man! You
will in turn build your man!
Admire him! Let him know the things about him that you really love. Let
him see how you admire him by the way you look at him! Enjoy him!
Encourage him! Literally INFUSE courage into your sweetheart! You KNOW
the things that really mean a lot to his heart. Be sure to do and say
those things that will bring courage and strength into his heart and soul!
Promote him! Become his very best marketing agent! Be the one who knows
his worth, his gifts, his talents, his strengths and shares them with
others! When the whole world “feels” as though it is crashing in, be the
one who believes in him and continues to help him keep on keeping on!
Inspire him! Be his sounding board of ideas. Listen and help him
brainstorm when he is void of ideas. Ask God to help you see all that he
IS and all that he is becoming!
Catch his vision! See those things that are not existing now! Be the one
person who can see what God has in store for him!
Strengthen him! When he is tired and weary, be the one to underguird and
support him. Pour all you have into giving him his second breath! Use
all of your gifts, talents, and strengths to make him whole!
Work with him! Be his “partner.” Find ways to help him work and build
the family name and legacy. Constantly consider ways that you can help
him make the most of the finances that you have. Follow the Proverbs 31
model by creatively finding ways to make the most of the resources that
Submit to him! Submission has great power! It unleashes your husband to
take the lead and become the man God created him to be. It also
unleashes God to use your family in a mighty way. Submission is not
weakness. It will not create a monster in your husband. It will bring
the peace and unity that will make your relationship everything that God
had in mind when He designed marriage! Plus, submission will help your
husband to become all that God designed for him to become!
Defer to your husband! Always defer back to your husband. Have a
decision to make? Unsure about what to do? Need help pruning your life
and your schedule? Defer to your husband. Let him be your first place
that you run to for counsel. Let him give you his wisdom and viewpoint.
Not only will you become all you can be and find great contentment, but
you will find that he will show himself as your knight-in-shining-armor!
Reverence your husband! See him as precious! Fall passionately in love
with him! Revere him and his position as your precious husband. Watch
Pour all of yourself into him! There is no accident that YOU are married
to your husband! So often it is easy to focus on what they are
not—probably because that is what WE ARE. Yet, as we pour ourselves into
them, we find how incredible we are TOGETHER! Pour all of yourself into
your husband--Your spirituality, strength, power, prayer power, support,
lifting him up, gifts, personality, intelligence, insightfulness,
communication skills! The true secret to building a godly spiritual
leader is to pour all of yourself into him. To get under him, to support
him, to build him! Pride will want to push ahead or push him aside.
God’s Spirit motivates us to get behind our husbands and let him succeed
as God’s mighty man!
So, what do you think? Ready to build your man? Oh! Become the student
of your husband and watch him become ALL God created for him to become!
You will DEFINITELY enjoy the journey!